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    Entries in Asta (7)

    Sunday
    Dec192010

    Monday Musings: December 20. 2010

    First things first - we want to wish all our readers a Terrier-ific Christmas:

    And, if that wasn’t durned cute enough, there’s this one (thanks Peg, for tracking it down):

    Ron said to me today that he really can’t imagine having any other kind of dog but a Jack Russell Terrier anymore. They sort of do that to you.

    Speaking of Ron, I took him to the ER at about 0400 on Sunday. Turns out he’s got a bit of a problem with atrial fibrillation. The pacer is actually fine but it turns out we got him there in time. Atrial fib can be nasty if you don’t deal with it promptly and correctly - and throwing a clot is common, which can result in a stroke. So Monday the docs will hopefully figure out what to do about it. Meds are the most common treatment.

    If there is a bright and shining lining to all of this, it’s the enduring power of friends. That’s what’s keeping me from feeling overwhelmed right now, between this and my elderly Mom’s medical issues that will also keep me hopping during what little there is to this week. But what I want to say here is that old bit about finding out who your real friends are during times of crisis. Ron and I have some remarkable ones - particularly Suggie and Shelley. They spent most of Sunday evening in his hospital room making us laugh, and on the way out to the parking garage on a dark, cold and stormy night, still wanted to stop by the house and help with whatever.

    As a non-believer, I’m not always sure about what ‘meaning’ I should attach to the holiday season, but somehow I think this is a big part of it.

    Asta could sniff out a prettily wrapped tin of YipYap treats so fast it would make your head spin, and rip it to shreds in about two minutes. It was always hysterically funny.

    I want to wish all my readers, and my fellow bloggers, a wonderful holiday. I hope that it is filled with  friends both old and new and family, plus good memories of those specials people - and pets - who have come into our lives and then gone out again.

    We’re richer for them having touched and informed us. And although we miss them, we have the memories … and a little wooden box on the desk.

    Hey, Asta … let’s watch that first video again!

    -maven

    Thursday
    Dec092010

    Thoughts on Asta, Ma and the rest of it

    When it comes right down to it, I’m doing this post in order to get that picture of Asta further down in the queue. I nearly come unglued each time I look at it.

    Oh boy, do we miss the little shit. I came home just a bit ago and went into the bedroom to put stuff away, and automatically went to turn on the lights and ‘check on Asta’. Uh, she wasn’t home.

    Atheist though I are, I do believe she’s in a ‘better place’. She’s no longer in pain, confused, deaf, startled (in a bad way), angry and frustrated. (Taking another sip of wine here, because I’m choking up) She isn’t waking up caked in her own excrement and having to endure a dreaded ‘bath’ with me in the shower every morning. I did use the fancy-schmancy people shampoo.

    The reason I’m telling you all this, is because I’m hearing from so many other friends - and I want to thank all of you that have been offering your condolences, that’s huge - that they are facing the same decisions with elderly pets.  If I can offer a bit of painful wisdom, I’m happy to do that. (Oh, Ladybird Kat just jumped up here on the desk).

    I’m exhausted. I just got home from my ‘job’ today … it was the day of doctor visits with my 93-year-old Mom.

    The neurologist is truly perplexed by her myoclonus. And this guy is one of the best. I’m sure he’ll be writing a paper on this. But we got a new med to try. I hope this one works, because if it doesn’t, she can no longer live independently. The risk of fall and serious injury is too great.

    Melissa Shelley at Sierra Nevada Cardiology is on to Mom. She’s great, managing both Ma and her congestive heart failure.

    But, Ma just wears me out, even on a good day, when she’s actually trying to be nice and cooperative. Unfortunately, I can’t answer her big question of the day: “If I just didn’t go to all these doctors, wouldn’t I just wake up dead one morning?”

    The thing that’s different lately, and I could really see it today, was that she is tired. Kind of like Asta was really tired.

    So I said something like “Fuck, Ma! How do I know? Ask the other old people up at the joint tonight. Where do you want to go to lunch?” Hey, there’s some thoughtful wisdom, right?

    So we go to GastroPub 775 over in Meadowood Mall. She’s always saying “take me somewhere that I can get something … something I can’t get at the home!” I figure fancy Basque-style food ought to fit that bill. Plus, I had a Groupon …hehehehehe.

    We had the Schnitizel Sliders and the steamed mussels. She really can’t get either of those at the home.

    She went through the mussels, and ate one slider. I’m not sure how the dribbled mussel broth - as tasty as it was - blended with her coffee, which she refused to move to one side and out of the route of travel from mussel bowl to mouth. She really liked the coffee - mussel broth and all. And she’s fussy about coffee.

    “How’d you like it, Ma?”

    “Well, it sure was different.”

    ‘Uh, what does that mean? Different in a good way or a bad way?”

    “Just really different”

    “Do you want to go back there?”

    “I don’t know, it’s really different”

    There you go. That’s pretty typical of our conversations anymore. And that was typical of the interactions we were having with Asta. They were two-way but failing to meet in the middle. Neither party was really getting what they needed. But it seems to be a universal condition.

    We were sitting in the waiting room at Sierra Nevada Cardiology late this afternoon, and happened to overhear the following, from a woman talking on her cellphone as she stormed out of the waiting room:

    Okay … your dad is officially a pain in the ass and won’t go to the hospital, so you can fucking figure it out!

    Whoa. You could see eyeballs rolling around the waiting room, and smirks. But you could also tell that folks had heard one version or another of this conversation before. Perhaps over the kitchen table in their own homes. Just to test my theory, I asked Ma if, perhaps, I could get some ‘help’ to come in on a daily basis - say for a couple hours in the morning - to help with a bit of personal care, breakfast and light housekeeping.

    Ah, I think the answer was “hell, no! I don’t want that and won’t have it. I’ll let you know when I need that!”

    So there you are. None of this dealing with the aged and elderly is ever easy. Dogs or people. I’m pretty sure that Ma would actually consider a shot of pentobarbital at this stage of the game. We can deal more fairly and squarely only with our beloved pets than we can with people.

    At least I’m still at that stage where I can drink. This leaves us with the only positive news here - that we can take charge when our pets truly need us to. It’s the least that we can give them in return. You should know that when faced with a similar circumstance.

    Regarding your elderly parents, or fucked up shirt-tail relatives that are on disability and the economic ragged edge … and now want financial advice … well, you’re on your own. Let me know.

    -maven       

    Wednesday
    Dec082010

    Asta Ryan: Gone West.

    February 20, 1991 - December 8, 2010

    Today we said farewell as one of our family members and loyal companion ‘went west’.

    For a look back, you might consider these links:

    The sweetest little dog butt

    You can’t trust a dog dish. Asta teaches us another trick or two

    A very durable little dog - Asta

    Coping with the summertime heat at Rancho Maven

    Helping your old dog navigate the aging process

    Note: ‘gone west’ is a term aviators use to talk about the passing of a fellow aviator. Yes, Asta was also a member of that club. She loved it when I would push the canopy back on taxi in our Grumman Tiger - then she could hop back up on my lap and let the slipstream blow her ears back as she looked out and smelled all the great smells. She never puked in the airplane, either.

    -maven

    Monday
    Jul052010

    Monday Musings: July 5, 2010

    Remind me to never, ever go up to Lake Tahoe on the Fourth of July again. The party at our friends home, high up on the mountain side at Stateline was great. The view included the fireworks shows at Emerald Bay and South Lake Tahoe. The company and food were awesome. But, then it was time to leave.

    It’s not an exaggeration to say we sat in traffic in South Shore for more than an hour. It was awful. As we came down out of our friends neighborhood, I was going to turn left and go down Kingsbury Grade, but the traffic was so heavy that I couldn’t even begin to safely attempt that. So, I turned right, with the idea of heading to Incline Village and coming back down to Reno thatta way. Wrong again. The uniforms down at the light weren’t letting anybody go that direction. So, we went straight into the mess at South Shore, and then had to make an entire circuit of Lake Tahoe to get home. We left the party at 10:30 p.m. and got back home to Reno at 1:00 a.m.

    I love driving the road around the lake, but not at night so much. And, not with mobs of cars and foot traffic coming out of every dark shadow. Oh, and there was the knothead on a skateboard crossing Hwy 89 out of the darkness before you got to Sugar Pine Point. This is where Darwin’s work will do us some good.

    As I said, the fireworks, food and camaraderie were great.

    I did a really sweet 20+ mile bike ride yesterday morning, and found some new riding places via the use of the really most useful new iPhone app called, appropriately enough “Where the Hell Am I?” With this you can be confident in exploring new areas since you just stop and call up where you are, and you have enough information available to get yourself out of a bind or at least to a convenient connecting road.

    I recommend it. It works really well out on the road in the car, too.

    While riding, I found a fairly large band of wild horses that allowed me to approach them and take a few photos on the iPhone.

    As you can see, we like our wild horses close to town and served up with a good measure of typical Nevada junk. This is just about 50 yards beyond a fairly expensive housing development. They folks who are moving in there from California will love the horses until they start leaving spent horse batteries on the lawns. Yes, I do know they’re from California, since I begged some cold water for my bike bottle. They were moving in from Fresno.

     

    Further along my ride, I was musing on the number of imposing gates and gate houses that I saw in so many of these newer subdivisions. I’m not a fan of ‘gated communities’. It occurred to me that people who move into them are in essence ‘seceeding’ from the country/community.

    They’ve decided to be ‘us vs. them’, withdrawing into every more isolated enclaves, where they can pool their resources among their economic peers rather than sharing them with a larger, more diverse community, or invest them in ways that would benefit a community or country at large. As they continue to do this, an ever decreasing proportion of revenue will be available to pay for ‘them’ and what they need. Poorer areas of town, and of the country (extending the analogy) will never be able to make up the difference that develops.

    We seem to have become a society that is divided not so much by race or other of the old social cast markers, but divided by income with a decreasing sense of responsibility for those who have less. The idea of economic inter-dependence seems to have gone the way of the Glas-Steagall Act.

    No, it’s become obvious that ‘we’re (not) in this together’. It worries me as to how such a sentiment - a zero-sum type of nationalism - will affect our country going forward.

    I also wonder at the perhaps false sense of security that dwellers within the gated ‘communities’ have, remembering the unsolved murders several years back in that most snooty of gated communities, Montreux.

    I probably think too much.

    The Fact Checker in Sunday’s Reno Gazette-Journal - ‘Top Reid critiques on jobs don’t hold up’ -  was good. Once again, those who would love to blame every ill facing Nevada on Harry Reid - would that he really was THAT powerful - have it blown back in their faces. It’s simply not true. As in not supported by facts. Not that a paucity of facts ever slowed down a Tea Party true believer.

    But, blaming Reid for lost jobs in Nevada is nonsense. Two Fact Checker articles - June 27 and July 4 - have dismantled each of the Tea Party/GOP/Republican claims to the contrary. When will they get a clue and understand they can’t have it both ways - I refer to Sharron Angle’s claim that once in Washington, D.C. it’s not her job to worry about jobs for Nevada - but then to turn around and blame Reid for supposedly not providing them?

    And, once again - this seems to be a continuing refrain in the local media - they contacted the Angle campaign for comment and were met with silence. I’ve worked on enough campaigns, in addition to other high visibility PR to know that you don’t meet criticism with silence. That’s the work of rank amateurs and/or the arrogant. Take your pick.

    Oh, and Sparks Mayor, Geno Martini coming out in support of Harry Reid was good for a laugh, too. I like Geno when he was on the council, and he’s still a good guy. It’s too bad that the Tea Party true believers don’t understand a real Republican when they see one. To blame the whole support thing on a piss-ant contribution Reid’s campaign made to Martini’s back in January is simply silly.

    So, now two old-time Repubs - Reno Mayor Bob Cashell, and Martini -  are supporting Reid. The Angle camp should be worried, but I’ll bet they’re not. To be worried would imply that they fully ‘get it’.

    Remember what I said about the ‘alternate reality’.

    I feared that this week might have a very sad note coming up. We may yet be dodging the bullet, but not for much longer, I think. We’ve started to really have the ‘talk’ in earnest, and have decided on ‘plans’.

    Our Jack Russell Terrier, Asta, has proved to be the most tough and durable of devoted little dogs, but at 19+ years, she’s really getting more and more frail, the ‘messes’ more frequent, and it’s obvious that we have to start getting our heads wrapped around the inevitable. Yesterday wasn’t good at all, yet today seems alright. I thought that we’d surely be down at Nick Klaich’s by Tuesday, with a lot of kleenex handy, but for now …

    Sigh.

    P.S. - If you find odd typos in my posts that I obviously not caught, blame them on my cat. Ladybird has decided that laying on my desk as I type - with her tail flopping down onto the keyboard - is wonderful. I’ve discovered a couple typos that I can only explain as ‘cat originated’.

    -maven

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Thursday
    Apr092009

    Friday Fish Wrap: April 10, 2009

    Do you have any idea what it’s like to come in, sit down and write a blog post … or two, or three, each and every day? There are days when you’re just briming with ideas and oodles of high dudgeon. There are days when you got exactly 4:15 hours of sleep the night before, for whatever reason and you feel just like you’ve been pulled through a knothole … backwards. Not, shall we say, a barrel of bubbling bloginess. Is that a word?

    Then there are times like this evening. We were up at Russ’ place for dinner and watched a movie. “Marley and Me.”

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    Monday
    Jan192009

    A very durable little dog: Asta

    As the vet took our Jack Russell Terrier, Asta, back to the surgical area early this morning, he again reminded my husband that they don’t really like to anesthetize dogs of her age - 15. The message was, don’t be too surprised if she doesn’t wake up.

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    Friday
    Oct032008

    You just can't trust a dog dish: Asta teaches us another trick or two

    Updated on Saturday, October 4, 2008 at 22:35 by Registered Commentermavenandmeddler

    Over Asta’s 15 years, she has always proved to be a pushy, feisty, smart and  thoroughly engaging little ruffian. This belied a deeper, darker trend toward being in need of Prozac. In fact, I asked a vet about the possibility once. He smiled, and said “she’s a Jack Russell and that just wouldn’t be fair”

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